Start with non-negotiables
Decide whether infant care, driving, start timing, language, pets, swimming, or rematch availability are required before you compare profiles.
Find an au pair
Find an Au Pair With Reviewed Profile Signals
A strong match starts before the first call. Compare the signals that matter for a U.S. family routine, then move serious conversations into a reviewed private workflow.
No platform fee Reviewed before introductions Private details protected
Decision guide
What to clarify before the next introduction.
These points keep the matching process practical and reduce weak conversations before either side shares private details.
Scan for fit signals
Use profile previews to understand availability, location flexibility, childcare focus, and the kind of home rhythm each au pair is likely to handle well.
Request a reviewed introduction
When a profile looks promising, create a family account so sensitive details and intro requests can move through a private reviewed workflow.
FAQ
Questions people usually need answered first.
For visa, sponsor, tax, insurance, or legal decisions, confirm details with the official sponsor or qualified professional.
Can I find an au pair for free on AuPair Advisers?
Yes. Creating a family account, browsing public profile previews, and requesting introductions through the platform currently have no platform fee.
Why are some au pair details locked?
Public pages show enough context to evaluate general fit. More sensitive details such as full notes, references, and intro context are protected behind signup and review.
What should I know before choosing an au pair?
Clarify children ages, weekly schedule, driving needs, start timing, room setup, household expectations, and interview availability before requesting an introduction.
Next step
Create family account Move from research to a reviewed request.
Start free, keep sensitive details private, and let the team review fit before introductions move forward.